okay,
well i talk to kyle [ my baby daddy ],
and we argued and decided maybe being together while he's away in iraq isn't what we need,
i told him that terri [ my step mom ] said we needed a break according to i have spent everyday since my seventh grade year with him,
i love him alot, and its really starting to hurt, i'm trying to not cry,
but for a 22 year old man, he's so immature , he says he's ready for the baby and he wants to be in his life,
but i just don't think he needs to be in mine,
i think if we try we can be the BEST OF FRIENDS, or atleast for hanson's sake. i mean i still wish i hadn't made this choice
but i'm sorta thinking its for the best,
i'm not moving out yet, i'm going to stay here even after the babies born and try and work things out when he comes for his R&R ,
i may leave then & come back when he leaves for his year and a half journey back, i'm not sure what to do really, i need some advice please.

thanks(:


kay,
well i talk to kyle [ my baby daddy ],
and we argued and decided maybe being together while he's away in iraq isn't what we need,
i told him that terri kay,
well i talk to kyle [ my baby daddy ],
and we argued and decided maybe being together while he's away in iraq isn't what we need,
i told him that terri [ my step mom ] said we needed a break according to i have spent everyday since my seventh grade year with him,
i love him alot, and its really starting to hurt, i'm trying to not cry,
but for a 22 year old man, he's so immature , he says he's ready for the baby and he wants to be in his life,
but i just don't think he needs to be in mine,
i think if we try we can be the BEST OF FRIENDS, or atleast for hanson's sake. i mean i still wish i hadn't made this choice
but i'm sorta thinking its for the best,
i'm not moving out yet, i'm going to stay here even after the babies born and try and work things out when he comes for his R&R ,
i may leave then & come back when he leaves for his year and a half journey back, i'm not sure what to do really, i need some advice please.

thanks(:


kay,
well i talk to kyle [ my baby daddy ],
and we argued and decided maybe being together while he's away in iraq isn't what we need,
i told him that terri [ my step mom ] said we needed a break according to i have spent everyday since my seventh grade year with him,
i love him alot, and its really starting to hurt, i'm trying to not cry,
but for a 22 year old man, he's so immature , he says he's ready for the baby and he wants to be in his life,
but i just don't think he needs to be in mine,
i think if we try we can be the BEST OF FRIENDS, or atleast for hanson's sake. i mean i still wish i hadn't made this choice
but i'm sorta thinking its for the best,
i'm not moving out yet, i'm going to stay here even after the babies born and try and work things out when he comes for his R&R ,
i may leave then & come back when he leaves for his year and a half journey back, i'm not sure what to do really, i need some advice please.

thanks(:


love,
laciegh & hanson(:

Wow. Well, this is hard because you're asking people who don't know you or him. You're just going to have to pray a lot and seek guidance from God. And lean on your family a lot. He's over there stressed out, you're here trying to be healthy. You're both probably worried about the situation. I hope he will be a good man and stand by you and raise this child well. But, only you and your family know the situation. Maybe this will help, though. He's across the world, so physically you can't see him anyway. Just chill out and take care of this baby in you and enjoy the pregnancy. In other words, if possible, try not to worry too much right now while you're pregnant since he can't really help you or not right now. Act like things are great with him and do what you have to do right now. Hopefully that's not bad advice, just something to think about for now. Be well and cheer up! Don't take offense at this, but maybe it'll help: there are worse things and you are still very blessed!