You're a better person than me cuz I would have told her to bite me. I also don't think that kids are a good reason to stay in a bad relationship that isn't working and there is no chance left of it working. Your kids will know that you aren't happy and they will probably think that they did it in some way. I'm not a twin myself but im an irish twin (i was born less than a yr from my older brother) and I wasn't supposed to be born cuz my dad got snipped the day that my mom found out that she was having me. I may not like him at times but I always love him. They are your kids and you have to do what is best and if you know that you can provide for them then there is no reason to give one up for adoption. Just be strong and hang in there either you two work it out or you get a divorce (I really hope not) but just stick to a decision that you know you wont wish that you hadn't made.

I agree pretty much with what the others have said, but wanted to encourage you myself! Keep the twins together, no matter what. Whether your family or another. Wow, how old is your husband? You're 22 and married a pharmacist; is he the dad of your other children? Hopefully he'll grow up, too, and accept his responsibility and be cool about it. I hope you have other supportive family, either way. Best wishes to you!

he is 36 and no they all came from differant dads dont think im a slut i just went through a bad time in high school any way thanks for all your responces but im on to my thired divorse Oh well any way no one is going to adoption if im still pumping blood

Has he always been good with your other children? Why would he want one of these babies but not both? Just because of his crazy mom? Are you saying from your last post that you two have definitely decided to get a divorce? So sorry you are going through all this. Did you say you have family and friends who are understanding and supportive? Well, take care of yourself and those babies and just take one day at a time.

thanks so much and yes i have a good family im truly belsssed and hes been ok to my other kids but i have a fealing he will win custady what do you think?

He's trying to get custody of your other kids? Did he officially adopt them already? Wow, I don't know what to think. Is there no way to still work things out with him? Good luck.