My little brother and sister are unidentical twins (they are cousins of mine but lived with us from the age of 11). They hate eachother, love eachother, want to kill eachother and protect eachother and I wouldn't steal a possible bond like that from my worst enemy. It will be hard but it will be immensly enjoyable too. GL

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i dont know what his problem is he wants to give up one because they hell have to take time from work I have an almost 8 yearold daughter and an four year old son But I WILl NOT give one up we can afored it he is a pharmasist for lords sake but his mom had triplets and two are in jail one is dead so she wants me to give up mine i dk what to do I cant seperate we have to stay together for the kids so do i just do what he says?

I'm pretty sure it's not that fact that they're triplets that ade them end up in jail and one dead. Please don't take offence but in most situations it's their socilaisation from young that leads them astray.

I'm not telling you to get up and leave and it'll be easy, but if he is going to make you give one up "See ya later, Pal." A lot of people think that staying together for the kids sake is worth living in a horrible life for them. Well, it's not! You will only hurt them in the end. So like I said before, sounds like you need a plan to get the heck out of there so you keep your children. There is no evil twin or good twin. They are human beings. Just b/c she had trouble w/her triplets doesn't mean that every multiple birth is going to have the same out come. In my opinion she didn't raise them right if there in those circumstances.

u cant use the kids as a reason to stay staying can do just as much damage as leaving

you need to hold your head high and let them know that this is your babies and your body and that you will NOT give up a baby...what happens if the one you give up finds you and ask you gave her up instead of the other up??? I know how you feel except mine wants me to have an abortion...i have a feeling you are a strong girl and if you want both babies then you keep both babies...i agree with what i read earlier if you give up one you have to give up both...twins are not horrible maybe his mom just didnt do the right parenting with hers i have several sets of twins in my family...your husband sounds selfish like mine...maybe everything will change..hope the best for you!!

Well at the end of the day its up to you what you do cause your the one that has to carry them and you said there due in February which is 3 months from now dont think you can have abortions that late in the pregnancy cause the baby has already started to have features and stuff and can breath and stuff.

My mate is about 13 weeks pregnant she thinks and she lives with her nan and her nan went on holiday and when she came backt the first thing she said was are you going to have an abortion and she said no now she has to move out.

Basically what im trying to say is not dont listen but its your decision aswell as the fathers but really his mother hasn't got nothing to do with it.

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Kelly-Marie ..x