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Re:PLEASE HELP I'M 16 AND PREGNANT!
By Chaz 6 Months, 1 Week Ago
Hey,

I'm 15 and due anyday now with twin boys.

My mom and dad toatally freaked when I told them about this and completely blanked me for ages. When I was 5 months pregnant my boyfriends mom saw how stressed I was getting and told me I had to start calming down for the twins sake. I told her everything about why I was stressed and she told me to move in with her. My mom and dad didn't seem to be bothered but my older sister told me that i shouldn't go. The rest of my family are looking forward to meeting my babies but still aren't proud of what I've done.

I'm a straight A student too and my English teacher was the first adult I told. She was extremely supportive and arranged a meeting with my parents; she was there for me when they flipped. You're parents might not be as mad as mine were but even so you should really have some support there to back you up.

You're probably thinking that I have more support with me having a boyfriend but I can see first hand exactly how you're feeling. My friend has just given birth to Maya-Lee. Her Mom died when she was very young and her dad didn't even notice she was pregnant. She has no other family and her boyfriend left her when he found out. Her Dad through her out on the streets when she gave birth and now she's living at a young mother and baby hostel near by. Eventhough she has nothing and only support from her friends she is determined to give her baby a better life than she had. Her Nan has just got in touch after 14 years and knows exactly what has gone on. She's gradually getting the support she needed from the start.

That was an extremity though and after time your parents will see what a blessing it is to have a new baby. My parents are gradually coming round to the idea so I wish you all the best !

Chaz

P.S. You are not a hoar. If anyone says you are they obviously don't know how it feels to become a mother. I was seriously thinking of getting rid of my baby and now I couldn't think of anything worse. I think when you're a teenager and you're pregnant everyone expects you to get rid of it but they don't feel the strong bonds between you, it's like a part of your body being ripped away. hey just don't see it. All the best for the future with your baby girl!
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Re:PLEASE HELP I'M 16 AND PREGNANT!
By xX.Mummy.Xx 6 Months Ago
Hey, Im 15 and pregnant and like you i was really scared and worried wat other people would think.. I also thought it would make me look like a whore, bcoz i didnt exactly have much of a good rep (unlike you) for some stupid reason.. i never slept around but i slipped up with my BF of 10months.. Im bak at school now 15wks pregnant and after 5 months of not being there.. today was my first day and it went really well.. lots of ppl already knew but everyone seemed excetied.. it was great.. Jus keep your head up and remember its ur life, your body, your baby.. and youve gotta be strong and proud and stik up for yourself and your baby.. Your friends will probably think its great.. there the ones you keep close.. Jus remember things will be different wen you see the ultrasounds and stuff.. and wen it comes out you'll hav a new best friend.. dont be scared.. Have Faith..
xx
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Re:PLEASE HELP I'M 16 AND PREGNANT!
By motherof4 5 Months, 4 Weeks Ago
god would never give u more then u can handle...
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Re:PLEASE HELP I'M 16 AND PREGNANT!
By Taylor 5 Months, 4 Weeks Ago
Well I dont know if I can help much but, we are kind of in the same situation. I am 17 and I am three months pregnant, but I actually got pregnant when I was 16. Its really stressfull everyone thinks that I should get an abortion, but I have been with my boy for 3 years and we have already gone through 1 abortion experience. I vowed to never do it agian. And then I end up pregnant and I am going to deal with it.As long as you finish school and work hard all the work will pay off if your child is happy.
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