Good luck with cutie boy, sweetie angel....

were u mad at her for getting pregnate young

thanks soo much for all advice

Ok if you are so certain that this BOY is meant to be the father of your children and your partner for the rest of your life, then what in the world is the rush? If its meant to be it will be, even if you wait 20 years. But you yourself said that you like the boy. Liking boys is natural at your age. Like all the boys you want. Date all the boys you want. But make sure when you decide to settle down that you actually love the MAN your with and that your absolutely positively certain that he is the man your meant to be with for life. You do not want to bring a child into a loveless marriage or one thats doomed from the start. Children deserve better than that from their parents. And if you cannot see that then you shouldnt be a parent until you do.

You only have so long to be a kid. You only get so long to be a foot loose and fancy free young adult. If you give up the chance to go to college or trade school your spitting in the face of all those kids who would sell their souls to go but cant for whatever reason. College is a great place for you to figure out just who you are and what you want out of life besides having a family. Dont you want to know who you are and who you can become? Dont you want to learn to be independant? To live your own life for awhile at least? And sure you dont think you want to travel but given the chance to you might find it fun. Its hard to travel and much more expensive to do so with kids under foot. why not follow your other dream for now. Model. If your pretty enought to be a sucessful model why on earth would you give up the opportunity to follow that passion. Modeling is a limited time opportunity. You get to a certain age and your looks will diminish and no one will hire you. And no one is going to want to hire a mom even if you can get your body back into peak form after pregnancy. You have maybe 10 years where you could make it as a model. You have until menopaus to have kids, and even now adays after that is still possible. And lets say you really do want twins, closer you are to 40 the more likely it is you will have them. Why abandon one limited time dream for another one which can wait for another 30 to 40 years?

From what you have told all of us its very clear you are far from mature enough to be even considering becoming a mother. Do you think we are all lying to you when we are telling you it is in your and your future childrens best interest that you wait until your older to become a parent? Not one person on here has said go for it. That should tell you something. We've all said you wont be ready both financailly and emotionally for a child and that your giving up your chance at persuing any dream you can imagine for the one dream you can wait on. Kids can always wait, but alot of these other opportunities cant. Children are terrific and they will be the greatest achievement in your life but they dont need to be your whole life. They will grow up and leave you one day and then what will you have to fill that empty place in your life? Become your own person first. develope interests outside of children. and when your finally mature enough to talk to your parents about ur future, to have a career of your own, to have a home to bring a child into that is your own, and to seriously settle down with a man who you are ment to be with, then and only then are you ready for kids. Please be smart and wait.

i been modeling and im trying to get me and him to go out.I always wanted to have kidsyoung because wouldnt you lkike to be able to have alot of energy to play with them

Im 38 and i still have tons of engergy to play with my kids who range in age from 12 years old down to due in a few weeks. I have just as much engery to play with our 2 1/2 year as i did when his eldest sister was a baby, so its not like my younger children are missing anything either.

Why is it that you cannot wait to have kids until your 25? Until you are financially independent of your parents? Until you own your own home? engery doesnt just dry up once you turn 18. How active a parent you are is your choice. Its not like you have to wait until your 60 to have a kid. Later on in your 20's is a good age to start trying provided you are ready for a life time commitment of that magnitude. And im sorry but at 18 your not.