OMG. im 12 too so i totally get how scared u must be. my advice is talk 2 your mom and if u cant do that talk 2 a nurse cause sometimes its easier 2 talk 2 girl than a boy about this kinda stuff. youll do fine!!

Wow your 12
My advice would go to your doctor a see what He/She would suggest let us know how it all goes.

Honestly vaginal birth is not that bad and especially if you have a epidoral plus right after I mean exactly right after its like nothing you have no pain maybe alittle tender but the pain and everything goes away but both of my cousins and aunt had c-sections and they all say that they were in so much pain for weeks after and they didnt even want to hold there babies and get connected with them cus they were in so much pain and completly missurable. Plus remember that after you have a c-section most doctors will not let you have a vaginall birth for your next babies but my aunt was fortunate to have a vaginal birth after first with her first two kids she had a c-section and for her next two kids she found a doctor that would let her go vaginally and she said vaginally was a 100 percent better than c-section plus you bond more with the baby with a vaginal birth. I had a epidoral and you dont feel no pain just pressure so just have a vaginal birth with an epidoral trust me youll be much happier.

i no wat u are goin thru i am only 15 and pregnant with twin girls... and if u wanna email me u can my email addres. and you probably could tell your doctor... and wen is ur baby due???

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Oh dear...I feel so sorry that you got pregnant at such a young age

However, the fact is that you are pregnant and this baby will be born.

As far as being scared. Don't worry too much. They can give you things to help with the pain and yes, giving birth is a lot of hard work, but keep in mind that it's only one day and then as soon as the baby is born...the pain really is instantly gone. Remember, that if it was THAT BAD, noone would ever have more than one child.

It certainly is bearable...but at such a young age, I'm sure it's a really scary thing to think about. Just try to remind yourself that even though you are young, you are now going to be a mother and you need to step up and do the best you can.

You don't want a C-section if at all possible...while the birth may be a bit easier...the recovery is much longer and harder.

Don;'t worry I'm sure all women are scare of having the first baby even the second I'm pregnant for the second time and I'm scare as if it is my first all al can tell you es be calm as much as you can I know is hard to be calm in a time like that but It really helps you think in others thinks like all the baby stuff you know his or her little clothes and one advise do as the nurses tells you.

One more thing if you are going to get and epidural let me give you and advise when they get you ready for it just relax and think of something else like the beach, or something you like doing or simple that this is almost over that would help the nurse to do her job really quick and you'll be better.

I had my first baby vaginal and it was something really wonderfull. just remember at the end it is you who takes the desision.

One more thing try to look over the internet for information about C section and a vaginal birth and what they said is true is better vaginal birth but like I said it is your desicion.

Read as much as you can about it It help me alot when I was going to have my first baby .

If you want you can email me and we can talk more a bout it I hope this has help

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