Hi everyone, those of you that know me already know that I just got married last year in October and my husband and I are really wanting a baby. Well, I'm in nursing school and I'll be done this August! Yae! I want to find me a job that I want and buy me a car. But I want a baby now! I know its good to wait but I need some opinions on what I should do. I guess the best thing for me to do is wait until I'm financially stable right? We want to try around Spring of next year. I'm so terrified that something might go wrong and I will never get pregnant! Is this just me being paranoid? Or has anyone else felt this way before? I know I'm going to wait I just have to!

if it is meant to happen before if not wait until your both secure enough to care for the baby then start trying

i meant to say if it's it's meant to happen before it will

Yea, you're right. Its up to us though it wont happen by accident because we are still using protection, but I have never took any birth control. So I guess we will see!

My sweet friend ... i knew this site would get you broody- well before nxt spring anyways!!
It would be best if you were both financially stable, but if you both really want a baby now then id say go for it, start trying.. theres no harm in trying. Just remember it might not happen straight away as you only have one shoot every month at trying to concieve- which isnt alot when you think about it. Plus you can still get yourself a nursing job next month as it may not happen straight away or if it does happen straight away you will have a job to go back too or you could get a job once your baby arrive e.g after your mat.leave and get yourself a car while your pregnant ect??

As for being terrified, i was terrified i might never have children- i still am to this day- and when i did finally get pregnant i were terrified something bad was going to happen, i only stopped worrying once i held my daughter for the first time. I think every women feels this way at some point!

I would wait but then again it is not my decision. If it is meant to happen it will happen when the time is right! everything happens for a reason