I want a baby real bad. My mom doesnt understnd and it not fare! I mean I'm 14. She doesnt get that im real responsible or something cause i know i am. I really want a baby like I want to dress them up all cute. I kinda wnt a baby belly too. Its so cute like than i can eat whatever i want. My mom has 5 kids, she should want me to have a baby i mean she was happy for my sister when she got pregnnt. I'm almost going to be in highshcool she should really let me do what i want. i mean its my body. how can i get my mom to let me have a baby?

Why not finish High School first before you have a baby?

Do you have a job that can take care of the expenses of the baby?

Do you have a boyfriend/fiance/husband who has a stable job and will help you take care of the baby?

And to tell you the truth, once you got pregnant, itz really not like "you can eat whatever you want." There are more limitation on food choices than the time while you're not pregnant.

are you serious girl??? i mean, alot of young girls get pregnant and stuff and then their whole life is ruined (not all, but alot). your still heaps young and you have your whole life ahead of you to make babies. being a mother is not just about dressing them up all cute and stuff. you have to feed them, change their nappies, stay up all night getting them to sleep etc. you'd probably not be able to still go to your school, you'd have to do home school or something. and then theres the whole thing of whos the father suposed to be and does he want to even be a father?? if your mum wont let you have a baby then i dont think there is a way to make her change her mind. im guessing your sisters baby was an accident or something coz planning to have a baby at 14, i mean come on people. well thats just my opinion on things, sorry if i offened anyone

Random Chick

sorry if this sounds harsh
i dont think that you are ready to have a baby because you are complaining that it is unfair which in my opinion is a sign of immaturity. you only want to have one because you want to dress it up and play with it but youre not considering the fact that you will be responsible for another human beings life. i probably shouldnt be telling you what to do as im only 16 myself , but i think you should enjoy the time while youre young and once youre older, more responsible and ready financially, then you should consider having kids.

sorry if this sounds rude, but there is no way you should be having a baby now. you sound incredibly immature, and if you were at all responsible you would be planning to have one 10 years in the future and planning how you are going to get a good job and support your baby. the reason your mom does not support this crazy decision is BECAUSE she has 5 kids, and she knows better than anyone that you are not ready. babies are not little dollies that you can dress up and play with. they cry and poo and eat a lot. they will not go on your schedule. it will sleep when it wants, not when you think it should. they need a lot, all those cute clothes you want to dress it up in, they're expensive. stuff costs alot more when its you paying for it and not your mommy. you cannot eat whatever you want. there is a list a mile long of things you cant have, and most of it is stuff teenagers like.
why not enjoy your teens, go to high school, have the college party life, and then settle down with a good man who wants to have a family with you and is willing to support you so you can take care of the kids you want so badly.
i had my first when i was barely 18, and as mature as i though i was, i was not ready. you are still a child, please dont do this to yourself.

"I really want a baby like I want to dress them up all cute. I kinda want a baby belly too."

Okay. It isn't as glamorous as you imagine it to be. I'm not a mother, but just by babysitting children, it is hard work. Sure there are rewards, but you wouldn't believe the stress and energy and responsibility you really have to have. Baby belly's aren't always glamorous either. You can have back pain, etc etc.

"I can eat whatever I want."

Not really true. You should be eating healthy so you can give the baby nutrition. You can't fill up on chips, pop, chocolate, candy etc all the time. The baby needs nutrients in order to be healthy.

"I mean my mom was happy for my sister when she got pregnant."

How old is your sister? Was it on purpose, or was it a mistake?

"It's my body."

Yes, but your mother doesn't want you to have to feel the pain yet. You're young, and you shouldn't be so hard on your organs for at least another 10, 15 years. She cares about you, which is why she won't let you get pregnant. Don't you see?

"I'm almost going to be in high school. She should let me do what I want."

Exactly. You're ALMOST in high school. You're so not old enough to face the challenges and responsibility yet, if you're wanting to have a baby on purpose, that is. She cares about you.

I hope I haven't offended anyone with this, and I certainly don't hope to have presented myself as rude to you, "Baby Gurl". Wait a few years. Travel the world, live your live, and don't do this to yourself.

Hope this gives you a bit of a different aspect from your current opinion and I hope I have convinced you a little to NOT GET PREGNANT.

-daisies110