ok i love the name Charity for a girl but the dad doesnt he thinks its stupid he wants RJ for a girl... so what you think Charity of RJ?

Charity is cute but Rj umm a little unsure about that one

Brieal

ya i totally get that! rj is more like a boy but he wants like Christian micheal for a boy

I prefer Charity, but don't like either.

RJ is initials, not a name, and very masculine. I don't feel good about naming children adjectives that they then must live up to, i.e. Faith becomes an atheist, Grace grows up to be clumsy, Chastity.. well you know etc. Also, the teasing potential for Charity is high, as kids might call her a "charity case".

What kinds of names do you and the father like?

I agree with Brieal
What do you and the dad think of:
Dallas
Suri
Chayse
Lily
Alana
Makenna
Morgan
Megan

suris cute... we cant really pick one we both like... its stupid... we hate each other but we are trying to make this work...