Well, I don't know where you live, but the first thing I thought was: so people do their own baby showers now? Hmmmm....

When you said you decided to take a break, does that mean y'all "broke up", even temporarily? Sorry to hear that.

I would definitely not invite her. I don't see how that could possibly even be a normal scenario. Is he a joke? I really don't want to be harsh, but he already cheated 4yrs ago, I suppose "repented", but she's still in the picture?

Whatever happens, breathe deeply, eat well, sleep enough, drink lots of water, enjoy your pregnancy and taking care of this sweet, innocent baby! Tell him your honest thoughts and expect the same from him, even if the truth hurts. Stay really close to your family. And trust that things will work out for the best and you have the power to choose your future. God bless....

Good lord! Seriously...don't invite her. The day is a/b you and the baby and all the cute little things you'll be getting. If you invite her, it'll be a/b her and everyone else. Personally, if he hasn't stopped talking to her, what makes you think he's not with her? And this whole break deal...ugh! This is the time where if you have the least bit of doubt...you need to get out! Yes, he can take care of the baby and what not, but you don't need that in your life. There's too many things you'll be doing and being a Mommy is #1! If he can't handle it then just let go. There's someone else out there that will take care of you and your baby when the time is right. I know it's rough leaving...Trust me, I was him at one time. I've been married for over 2yrs. to a wonderful man, but I remained in contact w/the boyfriend I had in/out of high school up until recently. He decided to go out w/one of my younger cousins and keep it in the family. It's unhealthy and that's one of my regrets...but I did it only b/c he was a mess. Everything he did, he messed up! So I took that and would laugh at the dumb situations he would get into and it made me feel better that I left him. Only now like I said he's dating a family member, and he lived in Florida, while living there he got a girl pregnant and she is now 5mos. A mess right? Trust me, I've been there, done that, moved on. Maybe you should too? Sorry I'm just tired of seeing these girls getting hurt b/c of guys that can't man up and do the right stuff!

well ,
we aren't together now.

i'm still wondering why we even lasted 5 years,
or how we did.


i wonder if he was scared to break my heart?!