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Re:Here's the truth. Im sorry. By Celianne 1 Year, 11 Months Ago For one, thank you for telling us the truth.
You are not ready. If you and this boy are seriously going to get married, then come out of your little 15-year-old I know what I'm doing thing. I'm 15 too. What you are doing is irresponsible. You can 'get your baby back' later, when you are more prepared and your brain is done growing. Think about the baby, being born into a family that can not support them and will likely fall apart because of it (not judging your ability, just a guess for what might happen). Just wait. Finish school, and tell your mother when she has no say in it.
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Re:Here's the truth. Im sorry. By madster 1 Year, 11 Months Ago To start with i m sorry that your mother made that descision for you. i wouldnt be able to handle that.
but getting to the point. you are obvoulsy not ready. you cant rely on other people to support you all the time and what will happen when they stop? how will you take care of your baby then? having another baby to make up for the one that was aborted isnt going to fix anything. what we tell a lot of teen girls who think they are ready to become mothers is when you are financtually, physically, emotionaly, and menatly stable ready then you can consider having a baby. and have a paying job, commited partner and finished school too. going to school, working and adding a baby in the mix is tough and not good for you or the child. so please wait! it ll make you and your child happier.
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Re:Here's the truth. Im sorry. By Vaness1 1 Year, 11 Months Ago I agree with what everyone else has said. You should of gotten married first, you should of been financially prepared, you should of waited a few years... the list goes on and on. But you didn't do any of those things, and now you're pregnant. I don't see much point in telling you just how stupid you are (it seems like you already know..).
I have absolutely no experience with being pregnant, I'm only 17. But I think you have to tell your mom as soon as possible. She's going to need plenty of time to warm up to the idea. Like I said before, try to act mature about it, and refuse to get another abortion. I don't think that is a decision she can make for you. With everything else.. good luck. I sincerely hope that things turn out the way that you have planned, but I doubt that they will. I can't think of one teen mom who is still together with the babies father or who is able to support the baby without help from parents.
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Re:Here's the truth. Im sorry. By TaylorElizabeth 1 Year, 11 Months Ago I'm not going to touch on your reasons for doing this. It's not my business.
I just wanted to say, you should tell your mother as soon as possible. If it's too hard for you to do it in person, then you could write her a letter. It will give her time to digest the info and it'll give you time to clear your head. It'll give you time to focus on your main goal(what you want her to understand) and you can practice conversations so that when you two do talk, you'll know exactly what you want to tell her.
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Re:Here's the truth. Im sorry. By Alisamber 1 Year, 11 Months Ago If you are pregnant, please seriously consider adoption to a loving stable family. If he and his family are truly on board, of course, it could work, but like everyone has said, you don't want to be a drain on them for years and years. So, if you two can't provide a stable life for the sweet little child, please consider placing him or her for adoption.
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By klymerkat 1 Year, 11 Months Ago It sounds to me like you don't want a baby because you feel it is the right thing, you want a baby because they are the only thing that will love you unconditionally and you crave love and attention. This is an incredibly selfish way of looking at things. In my opinion you shouldn't of even been having sex at your age!! You need to grow up before you can consider being a parent, try getting a fish first!!!!!!!!
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