im really stressed out about this pregnancy its my first and i am super tense.i am only 18 and have little experience with little babies. what should i expect? my husbands a little stressed as well. he doesn't know how to act lol.

I was 19 when I first got pregnant, I was married and had had a lot of expierence with babies during my teen years. I still didn't know what to expect. Being a parent is the hardest job in the world.

There is no book to teach you how to be a parent, it is just a hit and miss. I have been a mother for 12 years now and I am still learning.

I suggest because of your age that you and your husband take some local parenting classes.

My husband and I are actually enrolling into a parenting class for parents with preteens. SCARY!!

thanks sooo much for the advise=) its really ggod to have some one other than my mother giving it to me=)i have asked my husband to take parenting classes with me but he says that we do not need them.his parents have just flown in from Italy to help out, and mine live about 30 minutes away, and he thinks they will be enough help. personally taking the classes would help a lot but he thinks other wise so i don't know how to persuade him differntly.

I agree with Shelby

Good Luck x x

Brieal

yeah i think i am going to take some classes and drag my husband along even if he wants to or not. i just really hope i live up to all of my own and my parents expectations. i was always taught to be very respectful to my pears and to myself and am glad that my parents had laid out a sturdy foundation for me which i plan to do for my own child, and that i learn from my own mistakes so i can become a better parent.thank you all for the advise it really helps a lot and if you have any tips or any thing for me they would be greatly appreciated