HI! I WAS IN THE SAME BOAT WELL KINDA. I GOT PREGNANT WITH MY OLDEST SON WHILE I WAS ENGAGED. I THOUGHT MY PARENTS WOULD GO OFF THE DEEP END WHEN THEY FOUND OUT BECAUSE THEY HAD ALREADY LET IT BE KNOWN THAT THEY THOUGHT WE SHOULD WAIT AT LEAST 2 YEARS BEFORE WE EVEN STARTED TRYING!!! BUT THEY SURPRISED ME......MY MOM ACTUALLY ALREADY KNEW I WAS PREGNANT,SHE JUST KNEW! WHEN I WENT TO TELL THEM ALL I HAD TO DO WAS LOOK AT HER AND SHE SAID YOUR PREGNANT!!! AND OF COURSE I BURST INTO TEARS AND SHE CAME AND GRABBED ME AND HUGGED ME AND TOLD ME THAT SHE WISHED WE HAD WAITED BUT THAT SHE WAS HAPPY AND EXCITED ABOUT HAVING HER FIRST GRANDCHILD!!! MY DAD ON THE OTHER HAND WAS A LIL DIFFERENT. HE DIDN'T TALK TO ME MUCH FOR ABOUT 2 DAYS THEN HE CAME AROUND AND WAS EXCITED!!!! AND OF COURSE WHEN MY SON WAS BORN THEY WERE BOTH PROUD GRANDPARENTS!!!! THEY COULDN'T LOVE HIM MORE! HE IS VERY SPOILED BY THEM. AND I'M SURE THAT EVEN IF THEY ARE UPSET AT FIRST THEY WILL IN TIME GET OVER IT! AND EVEN IF YOU ARE UNSURE OF RAISING A BABY I BET THAT THEY WILL SUPPORT YOU AND HELP YOU THROUGH THIS ROUGH TIME. BE THANKFUL THAT THE DADDY WANTS TO BE THERE! LIKE IT HAS BEEN SAID ABOVE EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON! I'LL TELL YOU LIKE I TOLD ONE OF MY FRIENDS(WHO HAS A 3 1/2 MONTH OLD AND IS 2-3MONTHS PREGGO AGAIN) THAT YOU NEVER KNOW THAT MAYBE YOU ARE CARRYING THE FUTURE PRESIDENT OR THE PERSON THAT WILL CURE CANCER OR AIDS!!! EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON! THIS IS MY MOTTO AND I LIVE MY LIFE BY IT~ "IF HE BRINGS YOU TO IT HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT!" JUST KEEP TELLING YOUSELF THAT AND ALL WILL TURN OUT FINE AND THE WAY THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO!! GOOD LUCK AND IF YOU NEED ANYMORE ADVICE OR JUST WANNA TALK I'M HERE! SORRY THIS IS SO LONG

Thanks guys for all your input it was really helpful. I cried an cried, and gave it alot of thought. I'm keeping it. I mean, i always was but i just was concerned about how everyone would feel. But you guys are right. I have to live for myself. Now my next feat is just figuring out how to tell the parents! Ugh, im dreading it! I tested my 14 year old brother out (we're very close) and he was like "Moms gonna kill you!" I love his honesty but he just confirmed what i was already thinking! I think i'll just tell dad an let him tell her! Any suggestions?

Hey Sweet
I agree tell your dad first and then together tell your mom just like Genevra said

Good Luck

x x
Brieal

don't mean to sounds rude, but keeping your legs closed is the ONLY way you aren't going to get pregnant. Birth control is a false sense of security.

And you also might want to think about your moral values when you go around blaming God for YOUR mistakes. Just promise yourself and your baby that if you do decide to keep your baby this time around that you won't ever let them know you thought they were a mistake. that is the worst feeling in the world.

whoa harsh answer ShelbySAH

It was so hard for me to tell my dad that I was pregnant, so just be blunt and truthful even if it kind of hurts......