Hello yes i am a hubby not a pregnant girl!
You say you want to be a vet and also you wanta family well that also happened to my wife Mia she went to collage and became a vet (wow so do you)And look were we ae shes now 22 and on saturday (6th) she gave birth to quadruplets!

Her surporting hubby
Damien

Hi Amelia,
Saying no could be the best decision you'll ever make! You sound very smart and mature for your age, and it is good that you are planning ahead. First of all, the one way to be certain that you will never get pregnant is this: don't have sex. Listen, there is no birth control method that is 100% effective from pregnancy or STDs (and condoms slip and break-there have been many girls who have gotton pregnant even when a condom was used). Plus, you want sex to be special, something you save for your future husband. You want the ABSOLUTE very best sex? Save it for your wedding night! Believe me, it is worth waiting for. It is worth saying no before then. And then you don't have to worry about any guilty feelings and you can know that you have given your husband the best. You will have a beautiful, romantic wedding and have something new and wonderful to look forward to that night! There will be times that you will be tempted as you go through the teen years. You will have friends who will not say no, and in conversation with them you may start wondering if you should do it yourself, but stay strong, girl. Tell your friends the same thing I'm telling you! Stick together, and know you can be cool without having sex! Not everyone is doing it, and not everyone has to do it. And remember this, one thing that will help you say no is to not ever get into a situation where you would have to do that in the first place. When you are dating, go out and have fun with other couples, stay away from secluded places where it would be tempting to go all the way, don't be at home alone, and don't go too far when kissing. Do you have someone you could talk to about this? Like your mom, or someone from church? I know you will be strong and make the right decisions because you sound like you already have.

I would have to say that since you are asking already that maybe it would be a good idea to check out your local family planning center they can give you more information on different types of birth control that are offered and what the rates are I also know that there are many forms that can last for upto 5 years that maybe a good option for you since you have a really good plan for your life at this point. you can also try reading about some of the choices online

Depo Provera
the patch
the norplant
the pill
Iud
Etc

hope this helps you

ok im a teen thats pregnant. its hard but im maken it though. do the birthcontol and condoms and every safe method u can. if anything else comes up u can contact me and ill help u!

Ok, the only thing that will prevent pregnancy 100% is abstinence. STAY PURE. Its really not as hard as you might think. I'm still a teen and im still faced with the same decisions you are. Just say no. If they use the excuse that they love you then they should wait for you. Thats the test of true love. True Love Waits. Your plan sounds a lot like mine, excepct I dont want to be a vet. But I purposed in my heart that I would wait for my Husband completely. What better gift can you give your husband on your wedding night than your pure, clean body? If you give part of yourself away then it's like giving him an unwrapped gift. Its the ultimate test of true love.

P.S. Hold out for the man that saved himself for you too.

Hey hun I just tried to private message you but it doesnt look like you have an account. you should set up a account plus that way you dont have to keep comming on here to check if someone has responded to your question because people responses will be sent to you in your email.
But anyway what I wanted to tell you is go job for looking after your self and wanting to protect your self and thats just what you need to do yes condoms is a good and smart idea and thing to do but you cant just rely on those so while using condoms please protect your self by using something else. Go to a free clinic near you and get on some kind of birth control a good one to use without having to remind yourself to take is the depo shot its a shot you get once evry three months I love it but the only thing is you dont really get a period so if your ok with that then try it out. Once you get a account set up you can private message me if you have anymore questions or just need someone to talk to.