Hi everyone, I'm excpecting my third baby in September and I already have a son, Ezra and a girl, Ember Rose. I have a long time boyfriend who helps me raise them, the only problem is, he's a soldier. It's really stressful being an "army wife", to make matters worse, my kids suffer not having their daddy around (their three and six) Is there anything I can do to make this easier on my kids?

Also, just a side note, do you think marriage is going to add stability to our lives.

Just wondering and thanks for the help

yes getting married might be a good idea...
i have an idea...
just so the kids dont "forget" there dad have a time every week (say saturday or sunday) where u have a time to talk to them about their dad... they can tell u their feelings and what they think of their dad and in return u can try to explain to them wat he is doing!! tell them wat a great guy he is and how much he loves them and wishes he could be with them but he is doing his duty to his country... tell them he is fighting to keep our country safe for them and for everyone else... make wat he is doing very personal to them and show them lots of picture... especially the 3 year old so she wont be scared of him when she sees him- do u get wat im trying to get at?
if not tell me!!
hope this helps