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Re:please help! so scared! By Celianne 2 Years, 6 Months Ago scaredannie said:
QUOTE: They didn't? That doesn't sound very brotherly to me. No lovable hotheads? But yeah, it's good your brother's didn't try to kill your boyfriend. Yeah, my older brother(Erskine) is 6'3" and STILL getting taller(He's a fricken stick person, but he does Xcountry all year.), and my little brother(Duncan) is 5'11 and 3/4 (also still growing) and built like a football player. He's heavier than Erskine, LOL. I love my brothers. Maybe it's a good thing I'm in Alaska... They would win... GOOD LUCK TODAY!!!
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By Djcupcake 2 Years, 6 Months Ago I know exactly how you feel. I was 17 when I got pregnant. At least you are a strait A student, I was not, Which made it an even worse disapointment for my mom. Well I got kicked out and my BF and I had to find a place to live. It was really hard at first because I had to grow up overnight. Everyone was mad at me and I thought they would be mad at first then get over it (after all what can you do?) but their attitudes never changed. After 6 months I went into preterm labor and unfortunetly after 3 days I decided to take my baby off life support (for various reasons). It was a very hard thing to decide. I did feel like this is what my family wanted because they were never happy. Well we are happily married, living in a nice townhome with a nice a car and nice jobs. So don't worry what they say, you will make it. And im sure you'll have a happy healthy baby. Oh and were on our second pregnancy! Hopefully it will go good.
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Re:please help! so scared! By daisy3 2 Years, 6 Months Ago 1ST dont be scared im 15 and have a baby girl shes a new born and its hard some times but i love being a mom
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Re:please help! so scared! By DocPsychosWife 2 Years, 6 Months Ago This may sound weird but I would totally tell the parents first without the boyfriend around because daddy might use his shot gun on him (my daddy would have)..Your parents need to know though because they love you then you need to tell your boyfriend and he needs to take responsibilty for the life he helped to create. Its also good to tell your closest friend because they will be there for you when it seems like no one else is. You can do it though, you can do it with school even and you can graduate. Be wise and think everything through, you are an adult now.
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Re:please help! so scared! By scaredannie 2 Years, 6 Months Ago Thanks for all you're thoughts!
Djcupcake - I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, but congratulations on your pregnancy! Thats fantastic! Best wishes, hope it all goes well! Thanks for your advice. Keep me posted on how your going! DocPsychosWife - Thanks, I did tell my parents without my boyfriend around which was better. He is supporting me now which is good. Thanks Annie
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Re:please help! so scared! By mommyfaerie 2 Years, 6 Months Ago I can't believe your parents!!! They sound really selfish and conceited only thinking about their reputations. Why can't they be proud that their daughter is a straight A student and taking full responsibility for what she's done? Did the thought that you're giving them a GRANDCHILD even enter their minds? Seriously?!?!?!?!?
I got pregnant just after I graduated high school at 18. I was also a straight A student with very little effort. My boyfriend was awesome when I told him. He just looked at me a sec, gave me a hug and said "Is now a good time to tell you I want a girl?" It made me stop crying and I actually laughed a little. My boyfriend and I were working at a camp that summer a few hours away from where we lived, so we ended up telling our parents via e-mail. My parents were really disappointed in me, but they were also supportive. His parents skipped the disappointment and went straight to grandparent mode. That blew our minds. I knew an abortion wasn't an option for me; my dad is a pastor and I wouldn't be able to do it anyways. I was really lucky to get so much support. Now we've been married for almost 3 years and I'm pregnant with our 3rd child. You'll make it through this. It's not the worst thing that could've happened. As long as you have some kind of support system you'll be just fine. I'm sure once your parents see their grandchild they'll come around. If they don't that's their problem. Good luck, and if you need someone to talk to you can always message me.
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