If I was you I wouldn't put up with that. Do you really want a "boy" to be the person in your life. If he is already showing this much signs if trouble then its just going to continue. Plus, it sounds to me like he may have a few on the way. Don't let him push you around about this. Stand your ground, really think about this. I think you will know what to do.

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Yeah, he's called me a few times to say that he's sorry. He's been drinking and he seems really upset that I left him. I'm already losing sleep over this. In a way, I hate him. But yet I love him? This isn't fair. I guess it's a good thing we didn't rush into getting married.

yeah hes sorry now but if you took him back how long would it last a week then he'd be back to his old ways again. its fine its just wasn't meant to be your young you still have plenty of time to find mister right

There will always be a special spot in your heart for him, but the thing you need to keep in mind is soon he wont be just letting you down . He will be letting his son or daughter down too, and you will be left picking up the pieces. Plus if you stayed with him(for the baby) when the child gets older instead of seeing lovev between the parents it will see all the animosity and issues. I personally believe that it was me id rather have no influence on my child than a bad one. Good luck and do whats best for your child. He'll let you know how much involvement he cares to have.

Autumnsmom wrote:

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There will always be a special spot in your heart for him, but the thing you need to keep in mind is soon he wont be just letting you down . He will be letting his son or daughter down too, and you will be left picking up the pieces. Plus if you stayed with him(for the baby) when the child gets older instead of seeing lovev between the parents it will see all the animosity and issues. I personally believe that it was me id rather have no influence on my child than a bad one. Good luck and do whats best for your child. He'll let you know how much involvement he cares to have.

You made a very good point. Thanks for responding. :]

Steff Kim wrote:

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mominmarch wrote:

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Yeah, he's called me a few times to say that he's sorry. He's been drinking and he seems really upset that I left him. I'm already losing sleep over this. In a way, I hate him. But yet I love him? This isn't fair. I guess it's a good thing we didn't rush into getting married.

yeah hes sorry now but if you took him back how long would it last a week then he'd be back to his old ways again. its fine its just wasn't meant to be your young you still have plenty of time to find mister right :kiss: :)

Exactly. I'm definitely over his childish games. I think it makes him even more upset that I want to sell the house. But oh well. He can go live with his new girlfriend.

I'm sorry to hear he's being disrespectful and there's so many issues. I'm sixteen and just had a baby in September, and I don't even have this many problems. But anyways, if I were you, I would leave him. He doesn't sound like a winner anywayss. I would obviously get a DNA test when the baby is born so it proves that it's his baby and so he can pay you child support. If you take a "break" with your partner, you should not be sleeping with/seeing other people. Yanno. He doesn't sound like a good guy, honestly. If it were me, I'd be done with him now..